• Recruit participants with class, race, age and other diversity in mind. Reach beyond the usual suspects, and keep extending warm one-to-one invitations.

  • Meet someplace comfortable, with snacks or a meal.

  • Appoint a facilitator for each session who will pose the questions, keep the discussion on topic, and encourage quiet people to speak.

  • Make a clear agreement on commitment to preparation (reading or watching ahead of time).

  • At the first session, get group agreement on some groundrules.

    • For example:

      • Listen to each other intently. Bring an attitude of respect and curiosity.

      • Step up, step back: Talkative people hold back, quiet people speak up.

      • Confidentiality about any personal or organizational sharing.

      • Disagreements are fine; personal putdowns are not OK. All questions are good questions.